Ever been abused or getting abused?

by **Plym** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 2:07 am

Did you confide in a teacher or family friend?

by **JoshuaBuzz** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 2:14 am

Ejay whatever it is you are going through, I am very sorry and hope the situation is resolved somehow as soon as possible.

However, I would really discourage you from exposing yourself on a blog. At the end of the day, none of us can know whether you are saying the truth or are just some random bored teenager making stuff up for attention.PLEASE please seek someone out near you, a school teacher or family friend, a pastor, anyone, who can actually be of real physical immediate help to you and your familiy through whatever you're going through.

by **dereon** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 1:59 pm

Making a blog about getting abused and daily updating people about it on a blog?

I can't take this serious anymore.

by **Blackberry** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 2:10 pm

I'm kind of speechless about the blog idea. :-?

by **matthew_dixon** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 2:33 pm

ejayfierce wrote:PS (starting today on the blog ima start documenting my abuse each day)

Can I just suggest that this is probably not the best way to go about it. Surely there's someone you can tell, a teacher at school maybe, or someone in the authorities (police, social services). Over here we have a free telephone service called "Childline" which is precisely for situations like yours - where children or young people are suffering abuse and have noone to turn to because their parents/carers are the ones responsible for it. Does anything similar exist in the USA? Is there anything your big brother can do in terms of alerting authorities to try and stop it?

It's not just you that needs to be out of that situation, it's your little brother that you fear is going to be next in line. I can only urge you to tell someone - someone who can do something. However much support we can give you here on UKMIX, and however much support people who might read an online blog can give you, they're not the people who will be able to do something to stop it happening. I really feel you need to be alerting people who can do something to stop it, you shouldn't be forced to suffer for the next two years.

by **ejayfierce** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 8:34 pm

i dont know who to go to....i dont know any teachers that can help me..i have no family here...this abuse has to stop..its all like a cycle..mu big brother has been through it before..now its me becAUSE he moved...and u guys are right about the blogging idea..i didnt mean to put blogging, ii mean lke documenting it on here...but that was a bad idea..i just dont know what to do.

by **irishguy28** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 8:47 pm

Dial 1-800 4 A CHILD

http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

by **DG1** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 8:47 pm

Is it your mom that's abusing you?

by **Rutter** » Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:36 pm

Can somebody please tell me what the main post said?

by **Loverboy** » Sat Oct 24, 2009 7:43 pm

You are getting abused and the first things you think is to create a blog and write a book?

Boy, this is serious business. You must talk to a teacher OR to the police so that they can help you sort the situation.

No one EVER deserves to be hurted in any way. :-?

by **nas4life123** » Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:07 am

damn, call the police!

by **jpguy** » Fri Oct 30, 2009 8:01 am

I study laws... and I totally disrespect abusive behaviour... people, fight for your rights! I know it's hard (even for me sometimes) but there are always limits, the law will try to help you out at least

by **ejayfierce** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:21 am

*Breaths Fresh life into this thread* hello everyone its 2 years later.. and omggg i remember this thread that i made... i cant believe that my mom used to do that to me.. im so glad that im away from her and living a happy happy life... im happier then i coulda have ever been..

by **ANH** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:30 am

So, don't want to be nosy, but, how did you escape the situation?

by **Oo567oO** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:39 am

Wow.. I'm so sorry for you.

I guess you and your mom don't talk anymore?

by **Star** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:45 am

Did you write a blog?
Book?
Is there a movie on the way?

by **irishguy28** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 9:31 am

Is your little brother still at home?

by **Wayne** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 9:35 am

Geez, this thread is intense.

by **mattsky** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 9:44 am

ejayfierce wrote:*Breaths Fresh life into this thread* hello everyone its 2 years later.. and omggg i remember this thread that i made... i cant believe that my mom used to do that to me.. im so glad that im away from her and living a happy happy life... im happier then i coulda have ever been..

I'm glad you're happy now!

by **Merci** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 10:29 am

happy for you ejayfierce and I hope your little brother is safe!

by **Graham76man** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:04 pm

Yeah from a UKMIXER :lol:

by **blood** » Sun Jan 15, 2012 12:17 am

But what happend to your little brother? And are you living with your big brother now as you had planned?

I am so glad you are happy now. :wink:

by **Crazy4Brit** » Sun Jan 15, 2012 12:39 am

A sort of in 1998 in Greece. It was summer and i had just turned 5 and he was 22 or 23, he was our neighbours' son and i knew him so he came to our house when my mum was at work.

He made "unusual games" and things like that. Only when i got older i realised what kind of games were lol

by **Shortie** » Mon Jan 16, 2012 6:28 pm

Crazy4Brit wrote:A sort of in 1998 in Greece. It was summer and i had just turned 5 and he was 22 or 23, he was our neighbours' son and i knew him so he came to our house when my mum was at work.

He made "unusual games" and things like that. Only when i got older i realised what kind of games were lol

by **frisbee** » Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:18 pm

Crazy4Brit wrote:A sort of in 1998 in Greece. It was summer and i had just turned 5 and he was 22 or 23, he was our neighbours' son and i knew him so he came to our house when my mum was at work.

He made "unusual games" and things like that. Only when i got older i realised what kind of games were lol

:o

Was it a traumatic experience?