Different relationships at the same time?

by **Tansike** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 6:31 am

honestly, actually i think it's cheating. But i don't want to judge anyone so here's only a good advice: Decide, which of them is the 'one' and let the other fall. If you don't do that, all three will go, because things like that always comes out and i don't think that they will be amused to know that you have more relationships.

by **Crazy4Brit** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 9:44 am

jio wrote:Mmmm I am not sure I agree with that. But that wasn't my point. I was just trying to understand where he finds time for three relationships. I mean if at least 2 of them is just sex, then it does make sense

Well:

#1 is the one i have a normal relationship with

#2 is the generous one who makes brilliant presents :lol:

#3 is a mix of #1 and #2

The fact is that i like them all (#2 not just for his generosity).

by **Crazy4Brit** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 12:23 pm

jio wrote: I was just trying to understand where he finds time for three relationships

Two of them go often abroad for work/business relations and they even feel sorry to leave me here while they're away ( :lol:

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by **BLover** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 12:27 pm

I'm sorry but this is hilarious
:lol:

by **jio** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 12:30 pm

OK then my advice is keep #1 (the feeling guy) and #2 (the presents guy) and dump #3 (the mix guy). He ain't giving you anything the other two don't plus you need to get some rest or you will stop looking fresh and excited/exciting and one of them will start having second thoughts. Or keep all of them and quit German or somethin'

last.fm/hugom2c · by **hugo** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 1:21 pm

jio wrote:Or keep all of them and quit German or somethin'

by **Shortie** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 1:26 pm

The whole I am no one to judge is stupid. CHOOSE ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :evil:

Cheating is understandable, but not when it hurts someone.

by **Noahh** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 3:44 pm

Dating (being in a relationship with) multiple girls or guys at the same time is just a big no-no for me. It's cheating!

by **ECE** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 3:47 pm

Cray bro, take it like a pro n' stop asking silly questions over here 8-)

by **Graham76man** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 7:07 pm

Could you live without all 3, because chances are they will find out and then you will loose all 3.

Playing the field is all well and good, but it won't last.
You might end up alone :cry:

Can you cope with that :-?

by **marcsi** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:13 pm

my honest advice would be, leave all 3 of those poor guys alone, you certainly dont love nor deserve any of them. grow some balls first, then start a relationship.

by **swiftie13** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 10:04 pm

JSparksFan wrote:
jamesssxD wrote:I can't even find 1 boyfriend, yet alone 2

by **steophonic** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 11:18 pm

I've done it before. Once I dated two people with the same name, which I thought would make it easier but it didn't. This was just at the early dating stages though, I would get rid of one as soon as it became serious.

I don't think you can continue dating three people though, because they will surely find out at some point! Also, if any of these guys think it is more than casual dating then it's a bit unfair for them.

Website · by **Shorty** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 11:54 pm

Take it from me, this is going to end badly.

I know, cos I did it. I dated 3 guys at once, and I thought I was clever enough to balance it, but I was sadly mistaken. It was like something out of a soap opera, I scheduled a date with two of them on the same day by mistake and they found out about each other and dumped me.

I still had the last guy left, but apparently he and one of the other guys had mutual friends and he found out and dumped me too :-?

I went from 3 guys to none.

After that, I swore never to date more then one guy at once. It's too much trouble. You need to make a decision and drop two of those guys.

by **Serby** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:06 am

swiftie13 wrote:
JSparksFan wrote:
jamesssxD wrote:I can't even find 1 boyfriend, yet alone 2

by **RaFanatic** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:11 am

Choose the third guy, since he's a mix of first two :lol:

I don't think you should do that honestly, some of them may fell in love with you and you can hurt him so bad, therefor choose one

by **Serby** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:22 am

RaFanatic wrote:Choose the third guy, since he's a mix of first two

That was excatly my thought :lol:

So I would say, choose third one :wink:

by **Muzikritik** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 1:58 pm

If you're just dating them, then do whatever the hell you want. So long as you tell them you're dating other people if they ask.

If it's just casual sex then I'm sure you could work out a schedule. I'm guessin here though that there's some sorta emotional attachment. In which case: make your mind up.

As for the twin thing, pcdm3... yeah, it might be hot for you, but I doubt they'll thank you for it when they find out. And they will find out. They're twins.

Jeeeeesus. I'm a twin and there's no way I'd be trudging a cave if I knew my bro had already explored and pitched a flag up in it.

by **Wardo** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:23 pm

Oh, metaphors :lol:

by **jio** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:25 pm

That metaphor of exploration of a cave and putting a flag on it combined with the reality of the question at hand (i.e. gay sex) just brought nasty pictures in my mind... :oops:

by **Muzikritik** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:27 pm

Hmmm, actually, neither nor my twin bro are gay. But I maintain the metaphor stands. :lol:

by **Star** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:28 pm

Take my advice.

Why stop at 3?

by **ANH** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:50 pm

Star wrote:Why stop at 3?

Same thing I was thinking. You're practically in a monogamous relationship.

Everyone knows the sex gets better at five. It's like, endorphins gone wild, at five.

by **Serby** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 6:44 pm

ANH wrote:
Star wrote:Why stop at 3?
Same thing I was thinking. You're practically in a monogamous relationship.

Everyone knows the sex gets better at five. It's like, endorphins gone wild, at five.

by **summer** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 7:01 pm

serbia95riri wrote:
ANH wrote:
Star wrote:Why stop at 3?
Same thing I was thinking. You're practically in a monogamous relationship.

Everyone knows the sex gets better at five. It's like, endorphins gone wild, at five.