Agreed with Akini. That's about the best advice I can offer to you Col.JSparksFan wrote:
As for him being suicidal, I think it'd be wise to recommend professional help for him because that's a very serious step and it just shows how dire his predicament is. To have everyone judging you for a past mistake can be totally debilitating and I feel for him.
But again, you're a great friend for even being so openly concerned about him.
I read that yesterday - apparently, his wife has hired the same lawyer as Hulk Hogan's ex wife.Shorty wrote:I'm a bit right now cos I found out John Cena (guy on the right in my av) is getting divorced! Crazy! Soon him and CM Punk (the other guy in my av) will both be single! How will I pick between them hehehehe
My heart bleeds reading this. To lose everything; material and immaterial!!!!col89 wrote:Thanks for the comments (and unexpected compliments -- I honestly wasn't fishing for any!), guys.
The thing is, it had a major effect on the person - socially, mentally, and even physically. This individual lost a working degree that he/she worked five years for (not including the years spent in school); thus he/she became jobless and without a weekly wage; he/she lost all of his/her friends but me, only to feel 'comfort' as a social recluse; he/she had to move back to his/her parents' home and give up a very stable settlement, losing the independence of owning an apartment; as well as losing material things and all savings, his/her mentality and sense of optimism changed completely, living with a feeling of dread for each tomorrow.
I can honestly understand why the person was so broken internally, and it took so much convincing and motivating for any slight change to happen. At this point, there was already a bunch of years of professional help, taking visits to various psychologists on a weekly basis. My point is, I guess, that he/she could break down some barriers and, finally, feel a sense of happiness again; that is, until the past few days. I am now so far away from this person, which means that there are limits by which I can help, so I am naturally very concerned for their well-being and what their next course of action will actually be.
The worst thing is, this person had achieved so much by working so much harder than everyone else, only to lose everything in a single moment of error. I wish I knew what I could say now that would be of some assistance, but I really do not know what to say. I just want to say something to the new 'friends', just before they turn their back on him/her completely, but it is not like anyone can actually *force* friendships to exist.
I wish I (or someone) had an answer for this, but I cannot see one.
Luckily for John, they signed a pre-nup. So it shouldn't be as bad as it would be.04wayne wrote:I read that yesterday - apparently, his wife has hired the same lawyer as Hulk Hogan's ex wife.Shorty wrote:I'm a bit right now cos I found out John Cena (guy on the right in my av) is getting divorced! Crazy! Soon him and CM Punk (the other guy in my av) will both be single! How will I pick between them hehehehe
Cena had better be prepared to surrender half of his $15m fortune.
Either that or he doesn't want to deal with all the court drama and just wants to get on with his life. Give her money (which is obviously what she wants if she's hiring a high profile lawyer) and get it over with.04wayne wrote:Yeah, I read that he signed a pre nup too.
However, Cena has apparently offered her a financial settlement - in spite of the pre nup - which infers that he's trying to hide something [be it on his part, or hers].
This is one of the cases when I don't know what to say. Reminds me of some situation in my past in which I wasn't very efficient.col89 wrote:I wish I (or someone) had an answer for this, but I cannot see one.
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