Different relationships at the same time?

by **stevyy** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 7:04 pm

JustForMe wrote:
serbia95riri wrote:
ANH wrote:
Star wrote:Why stop at 3?
Same thing I was thinking. You're practically in a monogamous relationship.

Everyone knows the sex gets better at five. It's like, endorphins gone wild, at five.

i see no lie here! 8-)

by **Play** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:57 pm

Where's Pcdm3 when you need her advice??

Oooops just saw it on the first page 8-)

by **pcdm3** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:04 pm

Muzikritik wrote:
As for the twin thing, pcdm3... yeah, it might be hot for you, but I doubt they'll thank you for it when they find out. And they will find out. They're twins.

Well I've been with them since like over a year now and they won't thank me of course but I don't think they'll ever get mad at me... I know when and where and with which of them :lol:

by **pcdm3** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:10 pm

Play wrote:Where's Pcdm3 when you need her advice??

Oooops just saw it on the first page

I think it's been over a week since I last told you I love you 8-)

People shouldn't judge him... he can do whatever he wants but of course without hurting other people feelings.

If you want to mess then make sure your "partner" just wants to mess as well but if he/she is smoking hot then f*ck it and go for it :lol:

by **UKMusicLova** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:18 pm

pcdm3 wrote:
Muzikritik wrote:
As for the twin thing, pcdm3... yeah, it might be hot for you, but I doubt they'll thank you for it when they find out. And they will find out. They're twins.
Well I've been with them since like over a year now and they won't thank me of course but I don't think they'll ever get mad at me... I know when and where and with which of them

Oh girl, it's not worth getting with 2 people so close to each other! They find out eventually and the guilt of splitting them up is not worth it at the end of the day! I said the same thing to one of my girlfriends who was seeing her boyfriends best friend. It all comes out in the end.

I don't think i could have two 'relationships' at one time! I was in contact with 2 guys at one time but I didn't sleep with either of them so doesn't really count! I was just weighing up options before I realised i didn't want either of them :lol:

It was just a short thing (like a few months)

by **pcdm3** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:22 pm

UKMusicLova wrote:
pcdm3 wrote:
Muzikritik wrote:
As for the twin thing, pcdm3... yeah, it might be hot for you, but I doubt they'll thank you for it when they find out. And they will find out. They're twins.
Well I've been with them since like over a year now and they won't thank me of course but I don't think they'll ever get mad at me... I know when and where and with which of them
Oh girl, it's not worth getting with 2 people so close to each other! They find out eventually and the guilt of splitting them up is not worth it at the end of the day! I said the same thing to one of my girlfriends who was seeing her boyfriends best friend. It all comes out in the end.

But it's not like they're too close... but you're probably right but god.. they're just way too hot both on their own :oops:

by **UKMusicLova** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:30 pm

Haaaa I know it's hard somtimes as well want eye candy. The good thing about twins is that they look the same (well if they're identical) so just pick the one that gives it to you right (take it as you will) and stick with that one! :lol:

by **Pompeii** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:37 pm

Depends on whether the couple in question have agreed they want a monogamous relationship. Some couples are completely comfortable with an open relationship.

It's hard enough to handle one girlfriend. I personally couldn't imagine having two girlfriends at the same time! Way too much to handle and it would be too dramatic. Count me out!

by **Play** » Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:40 pm

pcdm3 wrote:
Play wrote:Where's Pcdm3 when you need her advice??

Oooops just saw it on the first page
I think it's been over a week since I last told you I love you

People shouldn't judge him... he can do whatever he wants but of course without hurting other people feelings.

If you want to mess then make sure your "partner" just wants to mess as well but if he/she is smoking hot then f*ck it and go for it

Preach it master! 8-)

by **jpguy** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:25 am

You're so sweet.. kawaii

marcsi wrote::o

my honest advice would be, leave all 3 of those poor guys alone, you certainly dont love nor deserve any of them. grow some balls first, then start a relationship.

by **matthew_dixon** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 11:38 am

Personally, I'd say the most important thing in a relationship is honesty. Therefore, if you're thinking any of them are becoming serious, they really need to know about the other ones existing... if you're wanting the other ones to exist.

I would never get into your situation myself - I found myself in a situation coming close to it recently actually (was due to meet a girl from a dating website, but got into a relationship with someone else just two days earlier - my first priority as SOON as I got into the relationship was to contact the girl on the dating website and explain that I would no longer be meeting her.)

If you try and keep living a lie to the three of them, it will only end badly - at very least for one or more of them, if not for yourself.

by **Virgostar** » Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:30 am

Agreed with all of those here who say you've gotta make a decision and stick with one of them - these things have a habit of coming out in the end and it will get messy (unless they all end up being cool with it, but I doubt that'll happen). I honestly couldn't do it and I really don't know how you do it Andy.

by **marcsi** » Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:02 pm

jpguy wrote:You're so sweet.. kawaii
marcsi wrote::o

my honest advice would be, leave all 3 of those poor guys alone, you certainly dont love nor deserve any of them. grow some balls first, then start a relationship.

really?? well tahnks :oops:

but I actually meant that all seriously.

by **Crazy4Brit** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 5:54 pm

There are 2 of them now. I managed to break up with one - i hadn't enought time for so many relatioships and it made me feel uncomfortable to have 3 different Bfs. 2 suits me more :lol:

by **Tansike** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 6:56 pm

Sorry if i'm to personally now but what's wrong? Why do you have two relationships?
Do you find it okay if someone would make the same with you?

Please, if you really love one of them, then leave the other. Because if you don't do that, someone will get hurt. And actually you play with their feelings...

by **Wardo** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 10:37 pm

Well...

What goes around comes back around :-?