No so much asking for advice,
But I gotta say, I' am becoming so so desperate, I'm also embarrassed by myself
I'm not even that picky.
I actually went through a period this year where I felt super lonely (and bored), and the pickings in these LGBT+ streets can be really slim. I felt frustrated, but honestly you can't summon a decent man at will; I think good relationships present themselves in due time. All you can do is try (as difficult as it may be sometimes, especially at night) to be patient, work on yourself and explore the things in life that genuinely make you happy, be open to love, and eventually I think we all receive it. Just takes (way!!!
) longer for some than others. Joining a community organization or club that exposes you to fresh faces is a good way to put yourself out there and maybe meet someone decent. Being a homebody kinda reduces the likelihood just from a purely mathematical perspective.
I do think, though, that sometimes the frustration/desperation stems from other facets of life, and we think that maybe having a companion will alleviate stress from other sources...and that's not always the case. I could just be projecting, though, so apply a pinch of salt to everything I said.