Do You Want To Get Married?

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Postby Virgostar » Sat May 04, 2013 11:43 am

steophonic wrote:
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potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life.
This is kind of where I am at the moment too.

I've never been happier with life than right now. :D
Well times have changed,.

I've been engaged since New Year's Eve so it looks like ill be getting married after all!
Wow mate congratulations! :D
Let's embrace the point of no return.
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Postby RayRay » Sat May 04, 2013 9:11 pm

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Skoolio wrote:But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
This is how I feel. :( :oops:
I don't know how old you are, but I was 25 when I had my first serious relationship.
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Postby CrazyCrazy » Sat May 04, 2013 9:13 pm

RayRay wrote:
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Skoolio wrote:But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
This is how I feel. :( :oops:
I don't know how old you are, but I was 25 when I had my first serious relationship.
24.

Thanks for your comment it makes me feel better. :D
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Postby arab » Sat May 04, 2013 9:29 pm

I'm single atm, but I don't wanna get married. Mariage is only a piece of paper that can ruin everything in the future. I don't need family dramas, divorce hearings ect ect. All I need is a serious relationship
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Postby Michiel » Sat May 04, 2013 10:39 pm

Gratz steophonic ;)
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Postby johnny_d » Sun May 05, 2013 2:45 pm

Skoolio I am 25 and am in my first relationship ever. Been with my bf for almost 3 months now. I felt like I would never find anybody either but it happened. It will happen for you too. You are a good looking guy and I think you'll have someone soon!

On topic - I would love to get married someday! Gay marriage is still illegal in Ireland but hopefully in the future I will be able to marry. I can't think of anything more beautiful to do. :)
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Postby Falsetto » Sun May 05, 2013 6:14 pm

Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
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Postby Tansike » Sun May 05, 2013 7:08 pm

Yes!

But the main reason is probably because there are so many things that are easier as a married couple. For example to fill out the tax declaration ( :lol: ) or if one of us is in the hospital you get some infos etc. you won't get if you're not married.

Others than that, it's just a sign that you are even more together than without a marriage....
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Postby Haribo » Sun May 05, 2013 8:53 pm

Not really.
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Postby sherman » Sun May 05, 2013 9:06 pm

yes i do, im 23 atm

maybe when im 27/28

im single at the moment, have been in a relationship recently but it didnt work out...

got to find the right woman for me.. shes got to get my humour...

i guess im difficult but I have my reasons...

i wish i wasnt so emotionless. i scare myself sometimes
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Postby sherman » Sun May 05, 2013 9:10 pm

Formusic wrote:Well I start to think about it these days, not that I m ready for it but my girlfriend always tells me stuffs like when we get married bla bla bla :lol: :lol:

then I start to get a bit worried, I haven t finished college yet and so has she but we talk about it, she doesn t know that actually I just want t live it up and that there s nothing serious between us (my point of view), though I "inceptionize" her that she s my soulmate because I m afraid she wants a "serious" relationship and if I do smthng juvenile, her heart will be brken !

to be serious, she s amazing as a gf but I dont really love her but I dont want to be single, hwever I don t want to break her heart. About marriage, yes I think about it but not now, maybe in 5-10 years ! and not with my actual gf !!! I know I m such a jerk, I m so disgusted with myself.
lol.. i read this like my autobio..... lol

just that im single now ( give it up....was with her and ended it)

also im granduated now.. just couple months
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Postby arab » Sun May 05, 2013 9:17 pm

Falsetto wrote:Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
Well, you can be a priest :lol:
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Postby Ruthymon » Mon May 06, 2013 8:50 pm

No, because my life isn't situated at the moment and this part is true:
Skoolio wrote:But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
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Postby Falsetto » Tue May 07, 2013 10:28 am

arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
Well, you can be a priest :lol:
no thanks :lol:
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Postby arab » Tue May 07, 2013 10:03 pm

Falsetto wrote:
arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
Well, you can be a priest :lol:
no thanks :lol:
Bad childhood memories? :lol: :lol:
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Postby supernova1 » Tue May 07, 2013 11:00 pm

arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:
arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
Well, you can be a priest :lol:
no thanks :lol:
Bad childhood memories? :lol: :lol:
:o :lol: :lol:
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Postby Falsetto » Wed May 08, 2013 8:14 am

arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:
arab wrote:
Falsetto wrote:Not now, but maybe in future (we'll see)...
Well, you can be a priest :lol:
no thanks :lol:
Bad childhood memories? :lol: :lol:
:lol: No, I'm not looking good in black :lol:
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Postby Guru » Thu May 16, 2013 8:59 pm

Will marry partially for love but mostly for financially stability. I got my dough and want a partner with their own dough 8-)
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Postby RayRay » Fri Oct 27, 2017 10:14 pm

johnny_d wrote:Skoolio I am 25 and am in my first relationship ever. Been with my bf for almost 3 months now. I felt like I would never find anybody either but it happened. It will happen for you too. You are a good looking guy and I think you'll have someone soon!

On topic - I would love to get married someday! Gay marriage is still illegal in Ireland but hopefully in the future I will be able to marry. I can't think of anything more beautiful to do. :)
It's legal since 2015 in Ireland. Are you still with your boyfriend and do you have plans to get married?
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Postby Goldmoney » Fri Oct 27, 2017 10:16 pm

Nah. No chilren either.
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Postby ludichris » Sat Oct 28, 2017 1:52 pm

I've heard that 50% of marriages end in divorce and the average wedding day costs 25k, which is an obscene amount to spend in one day.

To me that seems like a waste of money for something that may not even last. I would rather put my money to better use.
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Postby Serby » Sat Oct 28, 2017 5:56 pm

Yeah, Icome from a cukture where we spend sooo muxh money on celebrations (inviting 100-609 people). From baptism and marriage to 18th birthday, party before going to army (not compulsory anymore) etc. Not me, sorry.

Travelling and food >>>>
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Postby BehindBreakaway » Sat Oct 28, 2017 7:48 pm

I'm married. We went to Vegas to get married in May because it's still not legal in Northern Ireland where I'm from. It was a pretty amazing trip. We seen Britney and had AMAZING tickets to see Mariah but she cancelled. I've been with my husband for 4 and a half years now :)
3 months and I'm still sober, picked all my weeds but kept the flowers!
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Postby BehindBreakaway » Sat Oct 28, 2017 7:49 pm

RayRay wrote:
johnny_d wrote:Skoolio I am 25 and am in my first relationship ever. Been with my bf for almost 3 months now. I felt like I would never find anybody either but it happened. It will happen for you too. You are a good looking guy and I think you'll have someone soon!

On topic - I would love to get married someday! Gay marriage is still illegal in Ireland but hopefully in the future I will be able to marry. I can't think of anything more beautiful to do. :)
It's legal since 2015 in Ireland. Are you still with your boyfriend and do you have plans to get married?
It's only Legal in the south of Ireland unfortunately :( in the north gay marriage still isn't legal :(
3 months and I'm still sober, picked all my weeds but kept the flowers!
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Postby RayRay » Sat Oct 28, 2017 7:51 pm

ludichris wrote:I've heard that 50% of marriages end in divorce and the average wedding day costs 25k, which is an obscene amount to spend in one day.

To me that seems like a waste of money for something that may not even last. I would rather put my money to better use.
If you don't do something cause it may not last, there's a lot you can't do...

Also, how much you spend on a wedding is totally up to you.

Married twenty years ago and have no regrets. It wasn't that expensive, but still one of the best days of my life. :D
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