Do You Want To Get Married?

by **mattsky** » Fri Apr 15, 2011 11:25 am

"I'm not going to marry in the fall
And I'm not going to marry in the spring
I will never marry, marry at all
No one will wear my silver ring"

Never. I don't believe in love and marriage. :cry:

by **Crazy4Brit** » Fri Apr 15, 2011 11:44 am

I can't even think of that, maybe 'cause i'm 17.

Anyway i'd like to adopt a child in the future.

by **Marius** » Fri Apr 15, 2011 8:25 pm

No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life. Cannot imagine living with a woman (or at least with the same woman all the time

) or having children and all the responsibilities that come with them...

by **SG1401** » Fri Apr 15, 2011 10:41 pm

I don't think I want to tbh

by **westhammer** » Fri Apr 15, 2011 11:42 pm

mimifan09 wrote:Yeah with the right person and have a load of kids. I thought I had found a perfect person but I was wrong. I want the person I marry to be my best friend aswell!

Do tell!!

I'd love to get married but I wonder could I ever love one person enough....

by **steophonic** » Sat Apr 16, 2011 11:00 am

potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life.

This is kind of where I am at the moment too.

I've never been happier with life than right now.

by **Graham76man** » Sun Apr 17, 2011 12:31 am

I'm 50 and still not married

Is it by choice? No.
Would I get married? Yes
Do I think I will get married? No
Am I supposed to get married? Yes as everyone agrees to but they mostly don't. Twice actually!

Number of proposals by Me = 0
by somebody else = 1.
She was married and perhaps not sober, at the point of asking, there wasn't even a courtship before she asked or date, we worked together in case your wondering. I tend to attract females who fall for me, but clearly never say how they feel towards me. Anyway I didn't turn her down, but I didn't say yes, I wasn't expecting it

. The proposal caused a bit of gossip where I worked and I wreckon jealousy among a couple of other females (again they wouldn't show me how they felt). Because they got her sacked over something else, which I knew could have been brushed over. As a result we lost touch with one another.
Her asking wasn't a joke, by the way, perhaps the drink was just giving her the courage to say what she felt.

Perhaps in the end it's down to the woman whom a man marries, as she can hook you in, otherwise like me you drift down the river of life.

by **Tom92** » Sun Apr 17, 2011 12:40 am

Its not being young and single that scares me, its being old and single :lol:

by **DnBLover** » Sun Apr 17, 2011 12:47 am

Tom92 wrote:Its not being young and single that scares me, its being old and single

+1, I guess.

I don't see myself loving someone so much that I'd want to spend my entire life with them. But being alone forever kinda scares me.
I hope I do find that girl but, 'til then, I still have a lot to live!

by **Graham76man** » Sun Apr 17, 2011 4:48 pm

BLover wrote:
Tom92 wrote:Its not being young and single that scares me, its being old and single
+1, I guess.

I don't see myself loving someone so much that I'd want to spend my entire life with them. But being alone forever kinda scares me.
I hope I do find that girl but, 'til then, I still have a lot to live!

Take comfort guys as in the UK there are more single older females than there are males.
Largly because many males drink and drive and do all the stuff that men do when younger, so they never get to be old - just dead young men

by **cidermaster** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:05 am

Yes to Natasha Khan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by **irishguy28** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:26 am

I dunno...who's asking?

by **AlexZ** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 1:14 pm

No...
Love dies in my heart.

by **FreakyFlyBry** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 3:42 pm

potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life. Cannot imagine living with a woman (or at least with the same woman all the time ) or having children and all the responsibilities that come with them...

I feel the same. I guess I just value my freedom too much, and after seeing both of my sisters get married and all the hassle involved in planning their weddings... I just decided marriage isn't for me.

by **Lemo** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 4:15 pm

steophonic wrote:
potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life.
This is kind of where I am at the moment too.

I've never been happier with life than right now.

Me too. I don't feel like I wanna go out with anyone for a few years because I'm having such a great time in life

by **Muzikritik** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 7:31 pm

Never wanted to get married. Nothin against love at all, and maybe its the cynic in me, but I just don't understand how making your relationship legal somehow solidifies or cements it.

Looking at divorce figures, its a ceremony of fleeting emotion, at best.

Don't get me wrong; I love being in love... but I just dont think marriage and love are synonymous.

by **Star** » Thu Aug 11, 2011 7:34 pm

irishguy28 wrote:I dunno...who's asking?

*gets down on one knee*

irishguy28, will you marry me? 8-)

by **Charmbracelet** » Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:50 pm

I would love to get married one day! (As can be seen from my rather elaborate plan in the wedding topic :oops:

)

And I don't know if this is an unpopular opinion, but I would be very happy to be a house husband and give up any sort of career I have in the future.

by **Dior** » Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:59 pm

Not really. I don't believe that you need to get married to prove your love to someone.

I just don't think it's necessary.

I'm not against marriage though and I do enjoy going to weddings and would love to plan one.

by **Ferris** » Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:07 am

It's not for me either. I've seen how my mates that are now married have lost their freedom, and can no longer do a lot of the stuff they used to be able to. I like my independence too much.

by **hello** » Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:47 am

Star wrote:
irishguy28 wrote:I dunno...who's asking?
*gets down on one knee*

irishguy28, will you marry me?

Bitch stole my man!!!

by **ECE** » Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:59 am

Atm no,thanx! I'm planning to out-whore myself for the next few months at least :oops:

by **JSparksFan** » Sat Apr 27, 2013 3:57 am

Yes, I do want to get married but obviously not anytime in the near future. I think it's important in your young adulthood to shop around a bit and explore and discover yourself as an individual first before you make such a serious commitment to someone else. I always felt that I'd be ready at 25 but if I'm not, I'll be quite fine with that.

Last.FM · by **Michiel** » Sat Apr 27, 2013 8:18 am

Yes, I'd love to one day.

I'm waiting for him to pop the question though! I Hope he asks me 'soon'... Well at least in the next 2 years.

by **croatiaxtina** » Sat Apr 27, 2013 8:43 am

I don't know!

I think being married is just signing the paper, I don't have to sign to be loyal and faithful to someone I love, I can be all that without that paper too!

I believe in one love, and that I can be with someone 4ever, but... let's back to reality, most of people don't believe in that, and I'll probably never get married, cuz who knows when it'll be legal in my county :lol:

So I'll get old alone, and be alone with my 6 cats :lol: