Do You Want To Get Married?

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Postby Lollo95 » Sat Apr 27, 2013 9:26 am

I don't know! I think that if you're sure you're gonna love someone for the rest of your life, you don't need a marriage to prove that..
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Postby Michiel » Sat Apr 27, 2013 10:59 am

Ofcourse you don't have to marry to show somebody your love... I mean you love alot of people. From family to friends. You don't marry with each of them. So yeah showing love without marriage is ofcourse possible. But at the end of the day a 'marriage' for me is something special. I think its a nice sociological/historical symbol in our society of a special bound between two people (or more) to share their life together. In the current era marriage can't be a privilege for two heterosexual people, it's a tradition that still needs to evolve with our current state of life. But it's going slow, just because it is a 'tradition'. I also find it funny that marriage is often focused on religion, but its origins are much broader than religion.

I think its a tradition that needs to go on, but it needs to evolve. So yes, I wanna get married and I'm happy my society gives me that chance.
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Postby supernova1 » Sat Apr 27, 2013 11:07 am

No but that might change in 10 years or so.
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Postby RayRay » Mon Apr 29, 2013 7:01 pm

When I was younger I thought I hoped I would meet someone at 25, marry at 27 and have kids at 30.

But at 25 I met the right one and got married within the year.
We did think about adopting childeren, but we decided not to.
We do work with children and I am happy my brother and sister have kids who love us a lot.
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Postby Agnetha352 » Mon Apr 29, 2013 9:08 pm

A definite NO!
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Postby RayRay » Tue Apr 30, 2013 2:08 pm

Agnetha352 wrote:A definite NO!
You never know. My partner said he would never want to live with anyone again. Then I moved in within a month... And we got married within the year.

My best (girl)friend said at our wedding she would never marry. Six months later it was her big day. When she told me she would get married after all, she said she wouldn't want a white dress. She wore a white dress, had white doves, and horses and a carriage. She said she would never want children. She has two now. (And is divorced.)
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Postby ECE » Tue Apr 30, 2013 2:21 pm

RayRay wrote:
Agnetha352 wrote:A definite NO!
My best (girl)friend said at our wedding she would never marry. Six months later it was her big day. When she told me she would get married after all, she said she wouldn't want a white dress. She wore a white dress, had white doves, and horses and a carriage. She said she would never want children. She has two now. (And is divorced.)
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Postby Agnetha352 » Tue Apr 30, 2013 5:44 pm

I definitely know marriage isn't for me. I value my freedom too much and could never be the wife he would expect me to be so why should I ruin 2 lives?

Although if Tomas Ledin was still single.....
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Postby YaYo » Tue Apr 30, 2013 5:48 pm

Yes but that's not happening anytime soon. I like my freedom :D
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Postby Serby » Tue Apr 30, 2013 9:06 pm

I hope I will get married one day, I'd like that.
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Postby Formusic » Thu May 02, 2013 4:07 pm

Well I start to think about it these days, not that I m ready for it but my girlfriend always tells me stuffs like when we get married bla bla bla :lol: :lol:

then I start to get a bit worried, I haven t finished college yet and so has she but we talk about it, she doesn t know that actually I just want t live it up and that there s nothing serious between us (my point of view), though I "inceptionize" her that she s my soulmate because I m afraid she wants a "serious" relationship and if I do smthng juvenile, her heart will be brken !

to be serious, she s amazing as a gf but I dont really love her but I dont want to be single, hwever I don t want to break her heart. About marriage, yes I think about it but not now, maybe in 5-10 years ! and not with my actual gf !!! I know I m such a jerk, I m so disgusted with myself.
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Postby steophonic » Fri May 03, 2013 9:02 pm

steophonic wrote:
potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life.
This is kind of where I am at the moment too.

I've never been happier with life than right now. :D
Well times have changed,.

I've been engaged since New Year's Eve so it looks like ill be getting married after all!
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Postby CrazyCrazy » Fri May 03, 2013 9:05 pm

Congratulations!!! :o :D :D
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Postby steophonic » Fri May 03, 2013 9:10 pm

Cheers dude!
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Postby Marius » Fri May 03, 2013 10:48 pm

steophonic wrote:
steophonic wrote:
potojr wrote:No, I don't.
For the first time ever I have both money and time to enjoy life, and I just love the single life.
This is kind of where I am at the moment too.

I've never been happier with life than right now. :D
Well times have changed,.

I've been engaged since New Year's Eve so it looks like ill be getting married after all!
I still haven't changed :D
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Postby Skoolio » Fri May 03, 2013 10:51 pm

I do, desperately. But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
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Postby Bsquared » Fri May 03, 2013 10:55 pm

Im sure @Skoolio that you will find someone perfect for you one day, but why do you think that?

I would love to get married, but it isn't legal in Texas yet and I'm still to young.
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Postby CrazyCrazy » Fri May 03, 2013 10:56 pm

Skoolio wrote:But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
This is how I feel. :( :oops:
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Postby croatiaxtina » Fri May 03, 2013 10:59 pm

Skoolio wrote:I do, desperately. But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
I think I'm gonna marry you :lol:
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Postby Skoolio » Fri May 03, 2013 11:13 pm

Bsquared wrote:Im sure @Skoolio that you will find someone perfect for you one day, but why do you think that?
I'm just plain weird (both looks and personality) and no one likes me. Everyone walks away in the end. I can't maintain a relationship with another human being. That's impossible for me.

CrazyCrazy wrote:This is how I feel. :( :oops:
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croatiaxtina wrote:I think I'm gonna marry you :lol:
Please do! I don't care who you are, where you're from, don't care what you did, as long as you love me... haha. :lol:
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Postby CrazyCrazy » Fri May 03, 2013 11:17 pm

Skoolio wrote:
CrazyCrazy wrote:This is how I feel. :( :oops:
Billy, a hug 4 U. <3
Thanks! :( :lol:
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Postby croatiaxtina » Fri May 03, 2013 11:18 pm

Skoolio wrote:
croatiaxtina wrote:I think I'm gonna marry you :lol:
Please do! I don't care who you are, where you're from, don't care what you did, as long as you love me... haha. :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

as long as it's legal :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby DaBoi » Fri May 03, 2013 11:23 pm

CrazyCrazy wrote:
Skoolio wrote:But I think I'll never find someone that'll love me, sadly.
This is how I feel. :( :oops:
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Postby Skoolio » Fri May 03, 2013 11:42 pm

croatiaxtina wrote: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

as long as it's legal :lol: :lol: :lol:
We'll have to go to Slovenia for that. :D
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Postby croatiaxtina » Sat May 04, 2013 11:20 am

Skoolio wrote:
croatiaxtina wrote: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

as long as it's legal :lol: :lol: :lol:
We'll have to go to Slovenia for that. :D
Cool, I've never been there, so deal! :D At least we'll get married there :lol:
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