Call Me By Your Name (2017)

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Postby JSparksFan » Tue Jan 09, 2018 5:50 pm

toni_pest wrote:watched this last night, wanted it to make me feel things but it didnt. elio was great, oliver was annoying, the dad talk at the end felt forced and the whole movie is just a bit too slow. overall i wasnt bored or anything but i expected more.

and hugo, armie's voice is one of the most annoying things ever :lol:
The more I revisit my favourite scenes, the more I agree with that bolded bit. Oliver is barely bearable in most scenes. There are only a handful of scenes where I really enjoy his presence, and they involve less speaking and more...action.
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Postby Hugo » Tue Jan 09, 2018 6:23 pm

I'm just sad we didn't get a happy ending. :(

And Elio's father conversation at the end, I didn't understand that he had a gay relationship in his youth as well (apparently that's what he meant). I thought he was talking about a girl and that he never loved Elio's mother quite like that.
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Postby toni_pest » Tue Jan 09, 2018 6:29 pm

i concluded that the father is also gay but people are like 50/50 on that
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Postby Hugo » Tue Jan 09, 2018 7:15 pm

I don't know, they had a great relationship, in and of itself, pretty idyllic considering the time period it takes place on. For him to confess something like that to his son... it feels too unbelievable.
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Postby Hugo » Tue Jan 09, 2018 7:18 pm

Movies like this always leave me depressed for a couple of days.

I wish they would supply us with happy endings more often. The ending is too realistic compared to the almost utopian setting and course of events.
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Postby spiritboy » Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:17 am

Elio's father definitely had a gay relationship in the past, he just didn't have the courage to take it to the next level/step.

Or he fell in love with another man but didn't have the courage to have a relationship with him.

They are thinking of a sequel though.
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Postby Carbon » Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:30 am

I thought the gay dad speech was a bit extra, I’d much prefer it if the movie ended after Elio parts with Oliver and his mother is driving him home. That car scene shouldve been the ending imo. It was powerful and had a more open ending + the movie would be just the right length.

After that it became a bit too long and, again, not a fan of the dad scene. The parents shouldve stayed clueless
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Postby Hugo » Wed Jan 10, 2018 1:48 pm

Also, the "call me by your name and I'll call you by mine" scene was kind of out of place, did it have any meaning besides the pretty words?
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Postby cindycgy » Thu Jan 11, 2018 4:07 am

What a stunning, beautiful, classy and romantic movie. I was deeply moved. AMAZING!!
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Postby cheapthrills » Mon Jan 15, 2018 4:13 am

Finally saw this - haven't been able to get anyone to see it with me.

I was so invested in it. Discussion is spoiler, which reveals plot elements.

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I wanted Elio and Oliver to have so much more time together. I know I wanted a happily ever after, but I don't think it would have been realistic anyway when you involve a 17 year old guy. I loved what his father said - to not harden oneself against pain so that you have nothing when you reach a certain age. And the final phone call when Elio is whispering his name to Oliver - all of those were such lovely touches. I loved how this movie was just about how this summer romance develops and comes to an end - that their relationship forms without judgement or without some sort of relationship protagonist like homophobia. To see a movie of this caliber just let a gay relationship BE was so very fulfilling.
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Postby biscuits » Mon Jan 15, 2018 4:04 pm

I’m glad it didn’t have a happy ending. Sick of seeing gheys fall in love. When is it my turn? :roll:

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Postby locoporti » Sun Jan 21, 2018 11:16 am

Im a bit disappointed with some people here not digging the 'dad' speech at the very end. For me and for my partner it was one of the main highlights of the movie. It should actually go viral on internet, so anyone can see it and make people relate more to the gay community.

Wonderful movie, my only criticism is the first hour (it takes one hour to get things going) and that cringey part where Elio 'plays' with an apple :lol:
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Postby JSparksFan » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:15 am

locoporti wrote:that cringey part where Elio 'plays' with an apple :lol:
You mean the peach scene? A big deal was made about the scene in the press, but, for me, it was just okay. I suppose it was more erotic in the novel.
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Postby Fan » Sat Jan 27, 2018 7:00 am

Hm, I saw the movie yesterday and wasn't very impressed. Maybe my expectations were too high, because it's no way near a bad movie, but it was soo slow and dull and times. I was actually glad when it was over because it took way too long for me.
It was beautifully made though and there were some great parts, but overall it is very overrated.
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Postby Biebz » Mon Jan 29, 2018 8:55 pm

JSparksFan wrote:
locoporti wrote:that cringey part where Elio 'plays' with an apple :lol:
You mean the peach scene? A big deal was made about the scene in the press, but, for me, it was just okay. I suppose it was more erotic in the novel.
I was low-key disappointed with this scene too, I atleast expected him to eat it like the book but he barely licks it :lol:
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Postby Hugo » Mon Jan 29, 2018 9:03 pm

Biebz wrote:
JSparksFan wrote:
locoporti wrote:that cringey part where Elio 'plays' with an apple :lol:
You mean the peach scene? A big deal was made about the scene in the press, but, for me, it was just okay. I suppose it was more erotic in the novel.
I was low-key disappointed with this scene too, I atleast expected him to eat it like the book but he barely licks it :lol:
Would you eat it? At least that was believable. :lol: :lol:
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Postby Biebz » Mon Jan 29, 2018 9:04 pm

Hugo wrote:
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JSparksFan wrote:
locoporti wrote:that cringey part where Elio 'plays' with an apple :lol:
You mean the peach scene? A big deal was made about the scene in the press, but, for me, it was just okay. I suppose it was more erotic in the novel.
I was low-key disappointed with this scene too, I atleast expected him to eat it like the book but he barely licks it :lol:
Would you eat it? At least that was believable. :lol: :lol:
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Postby JSparksFan » Tue Feb 06, 2018 5:56 pm

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Postby aaliyahman » Tue Feb 06, 2018 9:15 pm

I watched this Friday just gone after being pestered by my friend.

I was pretty blazee about it because I’d stopped watching ‘gay films’ a while back because they almost always depressed me.

Watching it, I liked it. After finishing it, I’m haunted/confused/enamoured by the damned thing.

It literally is ever gay man’s hopes and desires coupled with the loss of love and youth. Armie Hammer is just gorgeous. Elio, i can relate to as I’ve been through so many similar (albeit not as long) scenarios growing up. I’m just left saddened that it isn’t real and that it ended.

The thing that is most beautiful is that this was a time where we had to be secretive. No Grindr, No Drag Race. The absolute exhilaration when a man liked you too.

How do I get this movie out of my head?
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