Janet Jackson abused by ex-husband

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Postby ForeverYoung » Tue Sep 12, 2017 9:29 pm

Inside Janet Jackson's 'Painful' Divorce: Star Was 'Verbally Abused' and Felt Like a Prisoner in Her Home, Brother Claims

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Janet Jackson‘s older brother Steven Randall “Randy” Jackson claims that his sister suffered “verbal abuse” and felt like “a prisoner in her own home” during her marriage to London-based Qatari businessman Wissam Al Mana. The businessman’s attorneys issued a statement saying he will not be responding to the “particular and deeply hurtful allegations”.

Speaking to PEOPLE exclusively, the former Jackson 5 star, 55, says, “Enough is enough” as he opens up for the first time about what he says is a troubling situation for the superstar singer.

“There’s a lot of pain. Janet’s been through a lot with her divorce. I’ve been through a lot, we all have,” says Randy, referring to Janet’s ongoing divorce and custody battle with Al Mana, 42.

The pair, who wed in 2012 and welcomed son Eissa on Jan. 3, have been in London courts since April, when the star confirmed their split in a video she shot with Randy at her side.

“Yes, I separated from my husband,” the 51-year-old said during the clip posted to Twitter in April, which also announced she’d be resuming her State of the World tour. She had postponed the tour due to her pregnancy.

She continued, “We are in court now and the rest is in God’s hands.”

As for what led to the divorce, Randy, who has attended court proceedings with Janet, draws a stark picture of his sister’s life with Al Mana towards the end of their relationship.

“It was quite an abusive situation,” Randy claims. “It came on later in the relationship, verbal abuse and being [made to feel like] a prisoner in her own home. No pregnant woman needs to go through being called a bitch everyday. There were things like that. That’s what she went through.”

In a statement released to PEOPLE, attorneys for Al Mana say “Mr. Al Mana is not going to dignify these particular and deeply hurtful allegations with a response.

“The breakdown of his marriage to Janet Jackson is a cause of great sadness to Mr. Al Mana, and it is the wellbeing and privacy of their son, Eissa, that remains his sole focus.”

Randy, who lives in London near the home Janet and Al Mana shared, claims that while the abuse was not physical, he was compelled to come to his sister’s aid earlier this year.

“I told her, ‘You’ve got to move in with me or I’m going to go over there and there’s going to be hell.’ She was really pissed off. I told her, ‘I don’t care anymore. I’m tired of it. It’s too much,’ ” he says

According to Randy, he wasn’t the only member of the large Jackson family to rally around Janet after the divorce, “My mom and [sister] Rebbie came out [to London].”

As for mom Katherine Jackson, 87, and father Joe Jackson, 89, Randy says at first, he shielded them from what he knew. “I didn’t want them to know. My parents are up there in age so I wanted to protect them as much as possible, but now they know. Everybody in the family knows.”

Soon after the news of their separation, Al Mana, who is reportedly Muslim, updated his website WissamAlMana.com with a passage from the Quran:

“You shall most certainly be tried in your possessions and in your persons; and indeed you shall hear many hurtful things from those to whom revelation was granted before your time, as well as from those who have come to ascribe divinity to other beings beside Allah. But if you remain patient in adversity and conscious of Him – this, behold, is something to set one’s heart upon. – 3:186 “

Despite early reports that the couple’s split had to do with differing religious beliefs (Randy says Janet is Christian), Randy says that was not the problem.

“I have a lot of Muslim friends and they don’t act that way at all,” he says. “It’s a personal issue that he needs help with and I’m going to pray for him, too. But I’m not going to allow her to live in that abusive situation. She’s my baby sister.”

Al Mana also took to his website with a picture of his estranged wife and a positive message titled “Love”. It reads: “To the most beautiful person in the world, thank you for your divine love, your eternal support and for being my best friend. I love you so much. Inshallah, we will be together in the Great Forever.”

Randy says things have been anything but amicable. Asked how Janet is doing now, he says it’s a tough time, noting that the famed “Control” singer has been breaking down into tears on stage night after night. While performing her song “What About” during her opening night in Houston on Saturday, she was overcome with emotion.

“What you saw in Houston, it was her situation coming out, what she’s been going through.” Moreover, he claims, “The abuse is still going on.” Randy says the pair are still in contact mostly due to coparenting Eissa. “She has custody and he of course allowed her to bring the baby on tour, but it’s constant harassment. This tour almost didn’t happen, but by the grace of God we’re here and we’re very prayerful.”

“It’s not about anger or vengeance,” says Randy as for why he’s decided to voice his claims. While he says Janet “wants Eissa to have a mother and a father,” the couple’s issues have grown too large. “We don’t like to put our business out there but sometimes transparency helps you. The devil thrives in darkness. I’m just here supporting her through this time.”
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Postby BlueScorpion » Tue Sep 12, 2017 10:19 pm

Now that Michael is gone they need to capitalize on their second best.
Something might have happened, Janet hinted that while performing "What About". But that doesn't mean Randy should be spilling all the tea to the press. He and Latoya are the worse.
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Postby nekoocz » Tue Sep 12, 2017 10:27 pm

Randy + People ... lets wait, i don't think Janet would allow him to say that while they are still in divorce and custody battle.
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Postby GetBack » Wed Sep 13, 2017 10:59 am

They are the worst siblings ever, no wonder why Michael didn't trust them! :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby stevyy » Wed Sep 13, 2017 4:28 pm

the Jacksons... uugh... it's always been so obvious how desperate those siblings want to leech off of Janet and Michael. I mean those are the only ones in the family with legit cash on their disposal. The others have all been broke or living off their name-promo ever since 1980.

I hope JJ is OK now.
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Postby Wayne » Wed Sep 13, 2017 4:31 pm

This is bad press IMO - everyone should just follow Janet's lead and shush - allow her to see the divorce through and then be the one to talk publicly first about her marriage if she so desires.
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Postby ForeverYoung » Wed Sep 13, 2017 4:39 pm

You guys are all blaming her fame hungry family, but who's to say that Janet HERSELF isn't behind this? Think. She's in a court battle and seeking full custody of Eissa and whatnot. It's smart to put the word out there that she was abused (and it's unfortunate this happened, no doubt about that), and doing it without opening her mouth. Plus, this conveniently came out when she kicked off her tour, which hasn't been selling out to boot. I know this is a pretty cynical way to view things, but hello.... this is show business.
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Postby biscuits » Wed Sep 13, 2017 4:43 pm

If true, the place to talk about it is in the courtroom. A judge shouldn't let public opinion and the tabloids influence the custody battle.
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Postby biscuits » Wed Sep 13, 2017 5:35 pm

https://twitter.com/JanetJackson/status/908018121327472640

She just posted this, which supports all the Wissam gossip lately. If Randy hadn't already been running his mouth, this would have been a good clapback. But now, it seems kinda sour.
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Postby jochen » Wed Sep 13, 2017 7:17 pm

I dont like tjose types of men.
YOU cant blame nobody but YOU
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Postby BlueScorpion » Wed Sep 13, 2017 11:45 pm

Janet acted classy and even said great things when she separated from Jermaine Dupri, this one might had been tougher.
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Postby biscuits » Thu Sep 14, 2017 10:12 am

I hope she remains single for a while. She may be 'Miss Jackson' to the public, but she seems like a total doormat when it comes to men and whomever she's with influences her a lot.

Rene was creative and thus gave us Janet's best years
JD was ghetto so we got Nipplegate, 20 YO and Janet became almost exclusively an urban artist
Wissam is reserved and so we had to wait 7 years for an album, she was covered head to toe and she was saying Inshallah at concerts
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Postby BlueScorpion » Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:40 pm

Doesn't she have a book called "True You" where she speaks of the importance and never let anyone make up your mind? I agree with you, she's too influenced.
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Postby ForeverYoung » Fri Sep 15, 2017 12:01 am

biscuits wrote:Wissam is reserved and so we had to wait 7 years for an album, she was covered head to toe and she was saying Inshallah at concerts
LMFAO!!!
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Postby biscuits » Fri Sep 15, 2017 12:03 am

For real though, have y'all noticed she is no longer saying In'shallah at her shows, nor is she covering her head. It just shows how much influence Wissam had
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Postby BlueScorpion » Fri Sep 15, 2017 9:32 am

I never really knew why she started saying In'shallah at her concerts if she never converted herself to Islam in the first place.
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Postby nekoocz » Sun Sep 17, 2017 8:58 pm

The video interlude to What About :o :o :o :o ... She hints the abuse, but still she Is very careful about picking the right words
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