What's going on with this guy?

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Postby Kara67 » Mon Jan 07, 2019 12:50 am

This man, who is my therapist, had said something to me that made me feel uncertain about how he views me. I had told him once that I liked him as a therapist. Right after I had made that comment, he told me that he was glad that I had said that and that I've always been his favorite client. Another time, I was getting ready to leave a session and he said, "I hope you enjoy this warm weather, such as yourself". Then he quickly fixed what he had said by saying, "such as today". He also tries to find things in common with me. For example, I had told him that I was English. Then, he told me that he was English too even though he has told me multiple times in the past that he only has Scottish ancestry. Sometimes, with some of the things that I'm interested in, he'd apply some of my interests into his life that he's never been interested in before. For example, if I was really into literature, he'd start getting into literature too.

I'm also in group therapy with him. During these group therapy sessions, he'd would always try to sit next to me even when there were other seats open and available for him to sit in next to other clients. I would try to sit somewhere else to see if he'd would follow me and he never fails to sit next to me. If he isn't able to sit next to me at all, he'll stare at me for a long time after the session is over and as I'm getting myself ready to leave. He also mirrors my body language while he's looking and listening to other people within the group. If I sit back in my chair, he sits back in his chair a 3 seconds later. Or , if I rest my hand by my neck, he'll do the same right after me. He's married and I'm single.

Why is he doing all of this?
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Postby jochen » Mon Jan 07, 2019 4:52 am

Ask him. Straight up.

Say you feel uncomfortable.
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Postby DOSSOME » Mon Jan 07, 2019 6:05 am

I think he wants you
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Postby DnBLover » Tue Jan 08, 2019 12:53 am

You need a new one
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Postby Guru » Tue Jan 08, 2019 6:14 am

Be upfront with him. He sounds infatuated with you, borderline stalker crazy.
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Postby Marchum » Tue Jan 08, 2019 7:40 am

U just signed up to post this?
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Postby Tansike » Tue Jan 08, 2019 8:15 am

Marchum wrote:U just signed up to post this?
My thoughts exactly :lol:

Anyways, you need to search another therapist.
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Postby Goldmoney » Tue Jan 08, 2019 8:33 am

I thought this topic was about MusicRecords
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Postby MusicRecords » Tue Jan 08, 2019 9:17 am

Goldmoney wrote:I thought this topic was about MusicRecords
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Postby DOSSOME » Tue Jan 08, 2019 10:11 am

Marchum wrote:U just signed up to post this?
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Postby aRat » Tue Jan 08, 2019 11:14 am

Have sex with him to find out
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Postby Loose » Fri Jan 11, 2019 6:07 am

aRat wrote:Have sex with him to find out
I suggest you don’t.

Have sex with someone else from a different environment.

I don’t see the advantage of therapy being your hook-up place. That’s basically not the purpose of it.
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Postby jochen » Fri Jan 11, 2019 9:44 am

He is kidding.
You take every word serious right?

:-)
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Postby Loose » Fri Jan 11, 2019 11:28 am

jochen wrote:He is kidding.
You take every word serious right?

:-)
You can never tell with aRat. He likes to be cheeky-serious. :-)
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Postby jochen » Fri Jan 11, 2019 12:08 pm

The rat needs a boyfriend. He is extremley undersexed :-)
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Postby aRat » Fri Jan 11, 2019 12:16 pm

jochen wrote:The rat needs a boyfriend. He is extremley undersexed :-)
That is not true, I have a **** buddy or "semi-boyfriend" and I had sex just 2 days ago but I am always horny anyway... :lol:

I think you can relate since you seem to be horny very often even though you are married. :wink:
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Postby DOSSOME » Fri Jan 11, 2019 12:44 pm

Loose wrote:
aRat wrote:Have sex with him to find out
I suggest you don’t.

Have sex with someone else from a different environment.

I don’t see the advantage of therapy being your hook-up place. That’s basically not the purpose of it.
I agree but then again if he cute and single and I'm horny then we might as well just F
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Postby Loose » Fri Jan 11, 2019 3:15 pm

Y’all too much. :lol:
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