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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 12:15

    Can you catch anything from just kissing?

    I met a guy last week but I wasnít that attracted to him in person so we just made out. However, he was really aggressive (not in a good way). Now, a few days later, I have a severe temperature and Iím getting scabs on my face.

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 12:28

    I don't know, but I imagine this is possible for sure
    I am not trying to seduce you... Would you like me to seduce you? Is that what you're trying to tell me?

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 12:54

    Iím really worried because I start a new job soon but I must pass a full medical first.

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 13:19

    Quote Originally Posted by biscuits
    Can you catch anything from just kissing?

    I met a guy last week but I wasnít that attracted to him in person so we just made out. However, he was really aggressive (not in a good way). Now, a few days later, I have a severe temperature and Iím getting scabs on my face.
    Herpes, Eipstein-Barr virus, common cold, the flu...

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 13:27

    I hope itís just flu. I read you canít contract HIV through saliva.

    Although, around Christmas, I was quite irresponsible and it may take 6 weeks to take effect

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 13:33

    6 weeks to take effect what?
    No you cannot get HIV through saliva, you can get it through kissing theoretically (not proven in practice) but that would require much more than just saliva, so you are safe from that.

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 17:25

    6 weeks for symptoms of hiv to start showing

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 17:29

    Mmm well I think it's much less than 6 weeks, I was under the impression it's a week or 2. But don't stress yourself, you do not have HIV, nobody can ever understand HIV from its initial symptoms, they are just too vague.

    We all did stupid things in our lives, yet most of us didn't get infected. I am sure you are not infected either.

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 17:40

    it's 3-6 weeks, depends on the individual. and the symptoms range from extremely severe flu with rash and stuff, to just some mild fever that you can dismiss as nothing special. some people don't even have any symptoms at all and aren't aware that they are infected.

    it all varies really, so it's best to get tested just in case even if you don't notice anything. but yeah, it's best not to panic too much, the odds are in your favor

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 19:33

    I really hope youíre both right.

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 21:33

    Yeah, hiv is the laat to worry about if y'all hust kissed, unless your moths were both severely bleeding.
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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 21:35

    Quote Originally Posted by jio
    Mmm well I think it's much less than 6 weeks, I was under the impression it's a week or 2. But don't stress yourself, you do not have HIV, nobody can ever understand HIV from its initial symptoms, they are just too vague.

    We all did stupid things in our lives, yet most of us didn't get infected. I am sure you are not infected either.
    You can test positive on hiv only after 6 weeks, before that it's not visible in your blood. There are though other tests that cover smaller span, but arent that reliable and even you test pos on them, it doesn't mean you are until you do the regular one 6 weeks after the exposure.
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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 21:37

    Quote Originally Posted by Serby
    Yeah, hiv is the laat to worry about if y'all hust kissed, unless your moths were both severely bleeding.
    Ok last week may not be the problem. But around Christmas, I did full unprotected stuff.

    My glands are swollen and my gums are swollen. This usually doesnít happen

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 21:42

    Hmm. Could be the stress or whatever. Or just a mouth/gums infection. If it happened around xmas, you can test yourself in few days already to make sure, but I'd say it's unlikely.

    Did you know a guy? Also, even if he was pos, the chances are nowhere 100% to catch it from one time. I feel ya though, my protection broke once and I didn't notice and it was a random hook up. Damn, I was so nervous and stressed afterwards.

    Also you do know about prep? It's like a day after pill, but for hiv or can be even taken as a prevention (though theres much more than just hiv to be caught thru unprotected sex, so it's not the perfect solution).
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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 21:48

    Iím really scared because my job may fire me

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 22:22

    Quote Originally Posted by biscuits
    Iím really scared because my job may fire me
    I don't think legally they can fire you because you caught an std (if that's what it is). What reasons would they have?
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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 22:24

    Quote Originally Posted by BehindBreakaway
    Quote Originally Posted by biscuits
    Iím really scared because my job may fire me
    I don't think legally they can fire you because you caught an std (if that's what it is). What reasons would they have?
    I know in Korea they can legally do that. I donít know about Japan (which is where I work)

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    by Ľ 09-02-18, 23:22

    I understand how you feel, but
    A. it might be something totally different. Remember that although you cant transmit HIV through saliva, you can still get tons of other germs through it.

    I remember back in like 2013 when I was a single 19 yr old I hooked up with this guy and he was also a little too much into making out. Anyway soon after I had a sore throat, felt feverish, felt like my tonsils were hurting and stuff, I got really scared but with medication it went away. It stressed me out but months later when I had a physical exam (once a year) they did a blood panel including a test for hiv and I was neg, and still am neg today. Point was that I got too many of his germs (eww) and it kinda made me sick. Truth is that people have tons of bacteria in their mouths even after they just brush their teeth.

    B. The stress might actually be making it much much worse. Just try to take something in the meantime and get tested for peace of mind, now in case it was something from dec and in 4-6 weeks in case you really think it was something from this past time.
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    by Ľ 10-02-18, 06:22

    Cookie, try to be a little less naive. I understand if your job for someone reason is weird about people being 'sick'. But maybe do some outside research of HIV transmission.

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    by Ľ 10-02-18, 07:06

    And donít forget that itís the time of the year when people get sick all the time, not like you developed a nasty flu in the middle of summer

    I had a similar panic, about a month after ďthe deedĒ I got a sore throat and cold and I was convinced I had HIV, already started preparing myself mentally for the positive test results. But ofc they turned out neg

    There isnít any 100% comforting advice if youíre like me and think of the worst case scenario and only a test will ease your mind. Also be careful with the tests because there are many types, some only detect it after 3 months.

    If itís any consolation, been there and all that panic was totally unecessary in the end, so try to think less about it if you can

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    by Ľ 10-02-18, 10:00

    Quote Originally Posted by SummerPeur
    Cookie, try to be a little less naive. I understand if your job for someone reason is weird about people being 'sick'. But maybe do some outside research of HIV transmission.

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    by Ľ 11-02-18, 07:00

    Quote Originally Posted by Serby
    Quote Originally Posted by jio
    Mmm well I think it's much less than 6 weeks, I was under the impression it's a week or 2. But don't stress yourself, you do not have HIV, nobody can ever understand HIV from its initial symptoms, they are just too vague.

    We all did stupid things in our lives, yet most of us didn't get infected. I am sure you are not infected either.
    You can test positive on hiv only after 6 weeks, before that it's not visible in your blood. There are though other tests that cover smaller span, but arent that reliable and even you test pos on them, it doesn't mean you are until you do the regular one 6 weeks after the exposure.
    He was talking about symptoms showing, not test results though...

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    by Ľ 11-02-18, 09:19

    I think itís Herpes. So horrible

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    by Ľ 11-02-18, 14:27

    Quote Originally Posted by biscuits
    I think itís Herpes. So horrible
    best wishes, hope you recover soon!
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    by Ľ 11-02-18, 16:32

    I am always very cautious when I have sexual relations.

    I hope everything turns out fine, biscuits.

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