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    by » 17-10-18, 19:11

    don't make yourself feel bad kellz, evne if he didn't like you, there's nothing you could've done about it. his loss.

    i feel like i'm gonna be alone forever

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    by » 17-10-18, 19:18

    It wasn’t a blind date & he’d said before hand I was his type so I dont know. He must’ve not liked my personality which hurts more tbh

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    by » 17-10-18, 19:24

    thankfulforkelly, don’t stress about it. Probably nothing you did or could influence. If he didn’t like you overall, then he’s not for you. Obviously other guys did like you at some point so it’s just a matter of personal preference.

    There will always be such awkward dates, and I totally get the urge to blame them on yourself, but that’s life

    Quote Originally Posted by toni_pest
    i feel like i'm gonna be alone forever
    Already made my peace with that, it’s easier when u stop hoping or expecting. It’s hard to do it, and that glimpse of hope sometimes comes back, but making peace with it rationally generally spares you the bad thoughts

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    by » 17-10-18, 19:33

    Quote Originally Posted by Carbon
    Quote Originally Posted by toni_pest
    i feel like i'm gonna be alone forever
    Already made my peace with that, it’s easier when u stop hoping or expecting. It’s hard to do it, and that glimpse of hope sometimes comes back, but making peace with it rationally generally spares you the bad thoughts
    oh ffs, i wrote this so others would make me feel better and tell me there's always someone out there blah blah, not for you to get me even more depressed

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    by » 17-10-18, 19:38

    ^ There is someone out there for everyone.
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    by » 17-10-18, 19:41

    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay
    ^ There is someone out there for everyone.
    Yeah toni don't give up, maybe next life
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    by » 17-10-18, 20:01

    Toni, don't stress....

    I have been single since August 2015
    Guys suck. Grindr sucks.

    Tbh, I don't need a relationship atm & but I wouldn't mind a "solidarity single Ukmixers sharing an apartment" when we all reach an age ready to be eaten up by our own cats, though

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    by » 17-10-18, 20:09

    Sistrens, puhlease. We are in early twenties and we would be a nice catch. I refuse to believe theres no one out there for me. Surely I can sometimes feel lonely, but it will happen when it happens. In the meantime, we can all work on ourselves, be it body or mind, and sooner or later we will attract someone and be in a happy relationships.

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    by » 17-10-18, 20:16

    Yeah some of y’all young babes here need to stop bishing about being single and go out there and meet a hot babe

    Almost as bad as super skinny people calling themselves fat

    I should write a book:
    Pros and Cons of Finding Your Love Partner at 20:
    *Gay Cinderella Edition (except she’s not poor)*
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    by » 17-10-18, 21:06

    RayRay and Mainshow <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serby
    Sistrens, puhlease. We are in early twenties...
    im in my late twenties

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    by » 17-10-18, 21:10

    Quote Originally Posted by thankfulforkelly
    It wasn’t a blind date & he’d said before hand I was his type so I dont know. He must’ve not liked my personality which hurts more tbh

    Oh whale :x
    What's his insta, lemme stalk him

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    by » 17-10-18, 22:08

    Quote Originally Posted by Biebz
    Quote Originally Posted by thankfulforkelly
    It wasn’t a blind date & he’d said before hand I was his type so I dont know. He must’ve not liked my personality which hurts more tbh

    Oh whale :x
    What's his insta, lemme stalk him
    I only have his whatsapp rip, I can screenshot his tinder photos of you’re that nosy hun / wanna slide into the DMs xox
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    by » 26-10-18, 20:53

    Quote Originally Posted by MusicRecords
    I should write a book:
    Pros and Cons of Finding Your Love Partner at 20:
    *Gay Cinderella Edition (except she’s not poor)*
    Just tell us the first chapter. How did you meet your guy?
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    by » 26-10-18, 22:37

    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay
    Quote Originally Posted by MusicRecords
    I should write a book:
    Pros and Cons of Finding Your Love Partner at 20:
    *Gay Cinderella Edition (except she’s not poor)*
    Just tell us the first chapter. How did you meet your guy?
    Lol I met him at a Starbucks in NYC...well I first saw him there. It was a busy Saturday morning and I remember I was barely trying to get into the wine business stuff cause I found it interesting. I was actually 20 (soon to be 21) so I was not legally allowed to drink but I knew this wine place that did wine tastings and had some producers/winemakers visit and do a little event or something, it was scheduled for later that day.
    Anyway that morning I went to a Starbucks and it was so crowded, almost all the tables were taken, but I found a two seat one and took one of the seats....then he came (like any stranger) and asked if he could sit on the other chair (people were sharing tables cause it was so crowded) I said sure and I remember thinking wow he's so cute. We made small talk and that was it. We went our own way. But somehow I felt something different/strange/interesting about just seeing him....anyway I went on with my day.
    Oddly enough he was one of the guests at the wine tasting later that day he came up to me and we started talking more, thinking what a coincidence in a city of 8 million

    After that, I started to see him more and more and we got to know each other better. Eventually I started to fall in love but I was too afraid to tell him. It was during one trip when he was away that I missed him so much it actually hurt...I wanted to tell him how I felt but was too afraid, idk why...but while he was away HE told me how he felt and it turned out he felt the exact same way and he was also afraid to tell me (but I guess he had the balls to tell me whereas I was too chicken )...after that I was like yup, idk how far this can get but as of now he's the one the rest is history

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    by » 26-10-18, 22:44

    ^ Great story. Both being afraid to tell. Both knowing the other one was gay too?
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    by » 26-10-18, 22:45

    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay
    ^ Great story. Both being afraid to tell. Both knowing the other one was gay too?
    Yeah he was more open about it than I was, but yeah I knew he was gay soon after we started to talk and get to know each other
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    by » 26-10-18, 22:53

    Quote Originally Posted by toni_pest
    i feel like i'm gonna be alone forever
    Ashanti will fill a 50,000-seat stadium before there's even the minutest likelihood of this being possible.

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    Tbh, I don't need a relationship atm & but I wouldn't mind a "solidarity single Ukmixers sharing an apartment" when we all reach an age ready to be eaten up by our own cats, though
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    by » 14-12-18, 08:34

    Personal space.

    The way people want to possess and control each other in so many relationships is insane.

    I find it especially cringeworthy when partners speak for the other half.
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    by » 14-12-18, 22:08

    Quote Originally Posted by Loose
    Personal space.

    The way people want to possess and control each other in so many relationships is insane. I find it especially cringeworthy when partners speak for the other half.
    That's a no no for me.
    It goes the other way too. People expect you to know every thought of your partner.
    They ask me stuff and I'm like: "Ask him yourself."

    A few weeks ago I was talking to a colleague who really wanted a cat, but her partner wouldn't allow it. I just couldn't believe it. Why would you deny your partner a pet if he/she is the one that would take care of it?
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    by » 14-12-18, 22:11

    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay
    Quote Originally Posted by Loose
    Personal space.

    The way people want to possess and control each other in so many relationships is insane. I find it especially cringeworthy when partners speak for the other half.
    That's a no no for me.
    It goes the other way too. People expect you to know every thought of your partner.
    They ask me stuff and I'm like: "Ask him yourself."

    A few weeks ago I was talking to a colleague who really wanted a cat, but her partner wouldn't allow it. I just couldn't believe it. Why would you deny your partner a pet if he/she is the one that would take care of it?
    Agree about the first part, not that much about the second. If they live together, someone has to involve their partner when they want to get a pet IMO. It has an impact on the partner as well, he will have to deal with it as well (somehow). Maybe he also has allergic reactions. You never know.

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    by » 14-12-18, 22:16

    Quote Originally Posted by Tansike
    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay

    A few weeks ago I was talking to a colleague who really wanted a cat, but her partner wouldn't allow it. I just couldn't believe it. Why would you deny your partner a pet if he/she is the one that would take care of it?
    Agree about the first part, not that much about the second. If they live together, someone has to involve their partner when they want to get a pet IMO. It has an impact on the partner as well, he will have to deal with it as well (somehow). Maybe he also has allergic reactions. You never know.
    Of course it's different when someone has allergic reactions. But I don't think I could live with someone that denied me a pet for "no good reason". Of course your partner has to deal with it as well to some extend. But I think you have to give in so much already when you're a child. Then you finally grow up and have to listen to your partner. Maybe I'm just lucky with my partner. He's more the encouraging kind of guy. "You want a kitten? Why not have three?"
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    by » 17-12-18, 22:11

    As a Leo I think a relationship‘s at its best when there‘s a whole lotta me & me time still left in it.

    I really dislike when the part kicks in when your relationship becomes a duty and things are scheduled from A to Z like where and withwhom to appear.

    For example I like to spend a moderate amount of time with my own family. So why would anybody assume I‘d like to spend an excessive amount of time with his family?
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    by » 18-12-18, 05:19

    I’m actually content in my own company. Not everyone was meant to be in a relationship. But it’s cool!
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    by » 18-12-18, 19:12

    Quote Originally Posted by Guru
    I’m actually content in my own company. Not everyone was meant to be in a relationship. But it’s cool!
    Me too. I'm more interested in self development and learning how to be completely self sufficient in every sense possible. Didn't Whitney say the greatest love of all is within ourselves? She was right.

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