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    by » Sun March 24th, 2019, 12:14

    Thanks beredy. I am keeping my eyes open for the red flags.

    Edit: We haven’t been talking third base yet, I can’t answer that question of yours. I just know he was in a long-term relationship with a man before.
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    by » Sun March 24th, 2019, 17:57

    I’m super single atm. How do I change this
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    by » Sun March 24th, 2019, 18:03

    Quote Originally Posted by thankfulforkelly View Post
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    by » Sun March 24th, 2019, 18:08

    Quote Originally Posted by Loose View Post
    I might need some dating advice just now hahaha.

    Great guy, I just think his profound catholic beliefs might clash with my hedonistic approach to life. From frequent trips to the Vatican, the cross as a necklace, the picture of Maria in his doctor‘s office... it’s a bit overwhelming and I definitely could not adapt to Catholicism with all my heart.

    Dunno... what you think?
    If he is a great guy, it shouldn't bother you he is a catholic. The Vatican is actually a must see place to travel too. My husband is into icons (paintings) of Mary and Jesus as well. And he used to wear a cross too. He's more into budism these days though. God doesn't judge and as long as he's okay that you don't believe in all of that, there should not be a problem.
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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 09:39

    Wait and See is probably a good strategy.
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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 11:50

    Quote Originally Posted by thankfulforkelly View Post
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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 19:06

    Quote Originally Posted by Loose View Post
    I might need some dating advice just now hahaha.

    Great guy, I just think his profound catholic beliefs might clash with my hedonistic approach to life. From frequent trips to the Vatican, the cross as a necklace, the picture of Maria in his doctor‘s office... it’s a bit overwhelming and I definitely could not adapt to Catholicism with all my heart.

    Dunno... what you think?
    Yikes, he must be a reeeally good guy if Mary in his office or cross around his neck haven't turned you off completely yet.

    I agree with Beredy on this one.

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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 21:50

    Quote Originally Posted by Carbon View Post
    Yikes, he must be a reeeally good guy if Mary in his office or cross around his neck haven't turned you off completely yet.

    I agree with Beredy on this one.
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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 21:57

    I think you should have a serious talk about this with him if you want a (long lasting) relationship, about why it's so important to him, how it fits with being homosexual etc. otherwise this will never work. It sounds really weird but it might be more of a spirtual thing than necessarily believing in the church's interpretation of the bible? Believieving or religion is not necesseraly a bad thing or something you cannot combine with certain ways of living it's just what most people make out of it that's wrong.

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    by » Mon March 25th, 2019, 22:09

    ^ Being religious and being gay can easily go together. Jesus was most likely gay himself.
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    by » Tue March 26th, 2019, 10:01

    Quote Originally Posted by RayRay View Post
    ^ Being religious and being gay can easily go together. Jesus was most likely gay himself.

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    by » Thu March 28th, 2019, 22:20

    how do people feel about getting back with an Ex?

    do people deserve a second chance?
    do people "change" or will they make the same mistakes again?
    can you trust someone again, if they broke your trust?
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    by » Thu March 28th, 2019, 22:35

    Quote Originally Posted by SmartIsNewSexy View Post
    how do people feel about getting back with an Ex?

    do people deserve a second chance?
    do people "change" or will they make the same mistakes again?
    can you trust someone again, if they broke your trust?
    Yes
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    It is possible. It happened to me and im having the best relationship i ever had. When you really love someone, things have changed, everything has been talked about, etc. It is of course possible. It just needs time and some work. In the beginning it felt really weird and I felt quite detached. He/we worked for it and it paid off... I even trust him more than before I think. I was so against in the past but im so satisfied I decided not to follow my guts for once. It was just the fresh started we desperately needed. Of course, I would not do that for any ex😅
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    by » Fri March 29th, 2019, 01:31

    I posted here a while back about a guy I used to date and who I was crazy about but he treated me quite poor. I wondered if even texting him was a good idea. Fast forward a good 2 years and we ended up having drinks together which turned out to be a date and about 2 more after that. I was so glad we did it, if only for some closure. I knew fairly early on I didn’t want him back but he wanted me. We talked about things I never dreamt we could have before and it’s exacly closure that I got. We went our separate ways but still keep in contact.

    It just goes to show that I think people really can change so I’m definitely on board with getting back with ex’s as long as you keep a level head.

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    by » Sat June 29th, 2019, 13:13

    Quote Originally Posted by SmartIsNewSexy View Post
    how do people feel about getting back with an Ex?

    do people deserve a second chance?
    do people "change" or will they make the same mistakes again?
    can you trust someone again, if they broke your trust?


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    by » Fri July 5th, 2019, 03:19

    Quote Originally Posted by jason2379 View Post
    I posted here a while back about a guy I used to date and who I was crazy about but he treated me quite poor. I wondered if even texting him was a good idea. Fast forward a good 2 years and we ended up having drinks together which turned out to be a date and about 2 more after that. I was so glad we did it, if only for some closure. I knew fairly early on I didn’t want him back but he wanted me. We talked about things I never dreamt we could have before and it’s exacly closure that I got. We went our separate ways but still keep in contact.

    It just goes to show that I think people really can change so I’m definitely on board with getting back with ex’s as long as you keep a level head.
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    by » Sat September 14th, 2019, 23:34

    Just venting out.

    This year has been quite hard for me in general. My long term gf broke up with me after 3 years in long distance. Our relationship was not ok anymore, although both of us still loved each other, but we were dragging each other down. I was surely very down and I knew it, although I could never interiorize it.

    The months that followed were hard for me. I was deeply emotional dependent on her and I was going up and down. Even last week I was having a breakdown because I was going back to craving everything that did not exist anymore. So it is unbelievable how I'm writing this now... Because someone else has just invaded my life. And the relationship that once consumed me, is finally fading away. I don't know where this new thing will go, but I want it, she wants it, so we are not looking back. I wanna do the best for me, put me first after so many years of pushing myself down. Not hiding anything.

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    by » Sun September 15th, 2019, 11:11

    ^ Thats what this site is for, sometimes Ukmix truly feels like a family! So glad you have found someone that makes you happy, and choosing for yourself now. I hope you will continue to be happy!

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